Your Identity. Your Desires. Your Space.
Inclusive Therapy for Sexual Identity, Kink, & Relationship Structure Exploration
A supportive space for individuals questioning identity, attraction, or orientation.
What if exploring your sexuality and relationships felt safe and empowering?
Your desires are valid. You get to set your boundaries, explore freely, and feel confident in who you are.
You’re exploring your sexual identity and relationship preferences, and it can feel both exciting and uncertain. You might notice new attractions or curiosities and you’re not always sure how to make sense of them.
It can feel isolating, like you’re navigating these questions on your own. You may hesitate to share your thoughts or desires, worried about being misunderstood, judged, or rejected. You might wonder if your feelings are valid, or if there’s a “right” way to live authentically.
You may struggle to define boundaries, express your needs, or explore your desires without fear. At times, curiosity and caution pull in opposite directions; you want to understand yourself better, but uncertainty or past experiences hold you back.
These challenges can feel overwhelming, leaving you disconnected from your desires and unsure how to create relationships that feel safe, fulfilling, and aligned with who you are.
Sound like you?
Are curious about aspects of intimacy, such as kink, ethical non-monogamy, or non-traditional relationship styles, but don’t feel safe exploring them.
Want to understand yourself, your body, your identity, your desires, and your boundaries, without feeling forced to fit a “norm”
Have experienced shame, silence, or pressure around sex, sexual orientation, kink, or relationships.
Have been told, by yourself or others, that your identity, orientation, or desires are “too complicated,” “confusing,” or “not valid”.
I’m here to help with…
Sexual Identity & Orientation
Gender Identity
Alternative Relationship Styles
Mixed Orientation Relationships
Identity Erasure
Communication & Consent
Kink/BDSM
Pleasure & Connection
Here’s what we’ll do together
Therapy can help you develop more compassion, clarity, and empowerment in your identity.
First, we’ll create a space where you can explore your sexual identity, kinks, or non-traditional relationship styles without judgment. You’ll be free to share what excites you, what worries you, and what feels uncertain at your own pace.
Next, we’ll explore the ways relationships, history, and culture have shaped your experience of your identity. This awareness supports a kinder, more confident relationship with yourself.
Along the way, we’ll play with ways to communicate your needs, boundaries, and fantasies safely and confidently. Body awareness exercises, grounding practices, and relational tools can help you feel fully present in yourself, your desires and interactions.
Ultimately, the goal is to support you in living authentically, exploring pleasure and connection safely, and building relationships that honor who you truly are.
At the end of the day, I want you to know:
Sexuality is an expression of and connection with oneself and others.
What we’ll work on
Imagine a life where…
You feel grounded and authentic, not because of a label, but because you’ve given yourself permission to be fully you.
Your inner voice guides you more than doubts, past messages, or external expectations.
Your connections feel authentic, playful, and deeply attuned to your desires and boundaries.
Exploring kink, alternative relationships, or curiosity feels safe, freeing, and joyful.
Becoming Starts Here
Becoming Starts Here
Questions?
FAQs
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No, not at all.
You don’t need a label, clarity, or certainty to begin. Many people come to therapy precisely because they’re questioning or unsure. This is a space to explore at your own pace without pressure to “figure it out” right away. -
Yes.
Being partnered doesn’t limit your right to understand yourself. Many people explore identity while in relationships, monogamous, poly, or otherwise. We can talk about how this exploration fits with your partnership, your boundaries, and your values. -
Never.
Labels are tools not requirements. Some people love them. Others prefer fluidity or no labels at all. We’ll focus on what feels true and supportive for you, not what fits into a box. -
Yes. So normal.
Identity can shift throughout life. Many people begin questioning or exploring later than they expected. Your timeline is valid, and there’s no “correct” age or moment to understand who you are. -
Your safety matters.
We’ll explore identity with care, grounding, and intention, honoring your truth and the realities of your environment. You don’t have to disclose anything before you’re ready or put yourself in unsafe situations. This is about building self-trust, not taking risks you’re uncomfortable with. -
Yes.
This is a supportive space for anyone navigating low, absent, or conditional attraction, or anyone feeling pressured to want things they simply don’t. Your experience of attraction is valid, however it shows up. -
Absolutely.
Kink-positive and shame-free support means we explore your interests with curiosity, safety, and consent, not judgment. -
Yes.
Whether you’re exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, open relationships, or relationship anarchy, you’re welcome here. We can talk about boundaries, communication, and what feels aligned for you. -
That experience is real.
Many people feel unseen in their identity because of how others perceive their appearance, partner, or presentation. This space honors that complexity and helps you build clarity and validation from within. -
There’s no set timeline.
Some people find clarity in a few sessions; others explore gradually over time. Identity is a process, not a race. We’ll move in a way that feels grounded, spacious, and supportive.